The Last Time I Had An Orgasm Was...

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Permalink Reply by Laura A. Lee on November 12, 2008 at 4:35pm

(J) The day I conceived.
The only other one is (H) When my kids were down for a nap, I took a "nap" too. (If you can count being alone)

Last time I was with someone else was the night I got pregnant (nearly 4 years ago). Two weeks to the day was when I found out I was pregnant...and also single (that was quite an emotional day as I'm sure you can all imagine).

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Permalink Reply by Melissa Lowe on November 12, 2008 at 7:17pm

E dane it (as the lil one says)

I have been separated from my ex for a long time now and I just don't feel like anything sexual really. I miss it, but I don't want it from just anyone. I am jealous and a lil bit sad when I think of sex. Someday I suppose I will get back on that horse again. Maybe when I am legally divorced I will celebrate with some ;)

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Permalink Reply by Christa on November 13, 2008 at 2:31pm

Sorry to say it is E. BLAH! I want to, really I do. It just isn't happening right now.

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Permalink Reply by Joyce on November 13, 2008 at 3:49pm

Sorry ladies, it looks like my reply is swearing at you!
My answer is (F.)
I was reading other posts and want to let the women who replied (J) it does get better. Do your keigles! (sp) Make it a part of your daily routine. I became more orgasmic after my son's birth.

I, also, "broke" my back 3 years ago. I had to be very controlling about how intercourse was accomplished, so I was not in pain. We figured out the quickest way for me to have the "O. " Now, that I am out of pain we can enjoy each other more.
Joyce said:

F---Last night?

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Permalink Reply by Redhead Mommy on November 13, 2008 at 7:08pm

Ah, I'm an F and I.....

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Permalink Reply by sensuouswife on November 14, 2008 at 6:59am

Looks like I'm swearing...that's funny Joyce!
and thanks for offering such a sweet encouraging comment.

those who've answered E, we've all had dry spells from time to time. I'm praying for bountiful blessings in your bedroom! ;)Shula

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Permalink Reply by Amina Carter on November 15, 2008 at 8:18am

For me "F" was yetserday!!!! :D Love this post. I am friending u now. LOL

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Permalink Reply by Barbara Siragusa on November 16, 2008 at 2:43am

I will say F, but add that it was multiples!

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Permalink Reply by Felicia Pratt Ellis on November 18, 2008 at 9:19am

Thank you so much for the cup of tea. I just gotta decide to get on that journey and I have, but I'm walking really slow. Trying to really figure out all of me in my new life. I am going to read your blog right now. I just recently posted about my situation at Is there really sex after birth. Please feel free to read and comment.

sensuouswife said:

Dear Felicia and Junein,
It does get better. It can get much, much better. I wish I could make each of you a cup of tea and hear your stories. I'm drinking Ginger Peach with Splenda right now, so know I have a virtual cup for you. Each of you will have to journey to find what works for you. I'd love for each one of you to visit my blog and read my story. My hope is that you will see that it's many different solutions and answers that have made up my healthy sex life. Each new discovery is like another piece of the puzzle.

And a special cuppa tea for you booperkit. Oh pregnancy changes our bodies fifty ways for Sunday, doesn't it? You know what? I want to offer encouragement to you in a way that may seem a bit creative or out of the box thinking. Is that okay? I wonder if it might be a good idea for you and your husband to do some old fashioned petting and kissing and then bring yourselves to orgasm while kissing or talking to each other. As unconventional as that might sound, this experience can be very erotic. can still strengthen your bond and help the two of you feel connected and satisfied. How do I know? I just know. (sly smile)

Oh speaking of talking to each other during sex, I just posted a new article on that recently, called Simple Erotic Nurturing. You may want to check it out.

Love y'all! Thanks for talking about something so special with me. Thanks for letting me share too.

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