Domestic Violence Group

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For survivors of domestic violence & those interested in learning the truth. Domestic violence has such an impact on families... including, in 90% of the cases which end up in family court for divorce, a loss of children for mothers.

Members: 39
Latest Activity: Nov 18

I Know This Is An Uncomfortable Topic To Discuss...

But this is a safe place to share your stories.

Sharing stories about the violence helps you & others: Using your voice on this topic is important for survivors -- and it helps others understand the real issues involved.

Sharing stories & tips about how to move on, will help others live happy & healthy lives!

Sharing news stories and information on policy, events, fund raisers etc. helps build awareness -- and that means we can save, maybe even spare families from the horrors of domestic violence!

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Comment by Angel of Angel's Realm on May 10, 2009 at 9:06am: It took A LOT to get where I am today. I did all of the leg work in getting proof that he was the one behind stalking my parents and I through the mail, but he did go to jail for it, 2 years probation and Anger Management classes.

The highlight was 2 years ago on his birthday. I was able to drive, behind him (in a loaner car from the dealership) on my way home (him not even knowing I was there, or even who I was) through where he last tried to kill me... When I drove past him I blew the horn and flipped him off. BOY did that feel good. The look on his face when he realized just who I was and what I did.. *lol* I was SO happy that I drove to where my husband was working on my best friends house to tell them. I'm no longer afraid to drive in or though that town.

Its such a feeling knowing he no longer has power over me. I do catch myself looking over my shoulder, still, when we are in town. I still have flashbacks and nightmares about what happened, but they are no where near as often.

Comment by Lisa Dunk on May 8, 2009 at 1:51pm: Hello to all. My name is Lisa Dunk and I too am a survivor of a abusive relationship. Also the Founder of Mama's Helping Mama's a non profit organization that supports shelters across North America and give aid to women and children. At this current time we are putting together a book that consists of stories of women who have survived an abusive relationship and are seeking stories from you. If you or anyone you know would be interested please email me today at mamashelpingmamas@hotmail.com or visit us at mamashelpingmamas.com. Thank you Lisa

Comment by Joanna Trusdle on April 30, 2009 at 8:39am: Hi Angel - welcome to the group. Your story is inspirational, and I am very happy that you have come out on top.

Comment by Angel of Angel's Realm on April 29, 2009 at 5:17pm: Hi, just a quick intro for the moment. I'm still finding my way around the site. I'm a suvivor of 7 years of emotional/physical abuse, rape and 3 attempts on my life. September 9th 1992 to June 8th 1999. Now, 10 years later I have a beautiful 7 year old girl (who's father I divorced & isn't the guy that hurt me so long ago) and a husband who loves me so very much. I am a very blessed woman. :)

Comment by DPopTart on April 22, 2009 at 3:13am: I'm sorry I haven't been as responsive as I should be, "life" has been less-than-gentle these days (first with the Fargo flood and then cellulitis), but (knock wood!) things are becoming more 'Normal' -- whatever that is ;)

Comment by christine hartridge on March 10, 2009 at 3:10pm: Hi and how wonderful everyone is for sharing stories in their lives that are so hard. I am a 'late bloomer' in escaping domestic violence. My relationship now (5 years) is loving, nurturing, supportive and we just don't have any fighting or negativity. My partner was in an abusive relationship (yep it happens to the men too) and I am a survivor of many years of both mental and physical abuse. If only 'access' didn't have to be allowed life would be a lot easier to rebuild - it only allows continued abuse and power play

Comment by Momma Mac on February 3, 2009 at 6:18am: Hello all. I was also in an abusive marriage. I have long kept a blog that chronicles my life since my ex's incarceration. Nine years for attempted murder while committing other felonies.

Read my story at http://liferestarted.wordpress.com

and my latest post from my other blog

Please feel free to comment and/or email me. I want to create a community for other survivors of domestic abuse. Especially in letting everyone know they come back from the brink of death. Literally.

Comment by Curvaliscious on January 18, 2009 at 6:10am: That is so true dpoptart. I think that it was a good thing for my oldest to have him charged but we were SO relieved when he pled guilty because both of us were terrified about testifying against him. I dread the day that he gets out of jail!

Comment by DPopTart on January 17, 2009 at 10:48pm: Hi Curvaliscious,

It's been nearly 6 years for me, and I still find unexpected pockets of shadows which still affect me. Healing takes time -- and when you're a mom, like most things, we worry about our kids first and so it takes even more time to get around to ourselves.

Comment by Curvaliscious on January 17, 2009 at 7:49pm: Hello everyone I am new to Twitter Moms. I lived in a very abusive marriage for 8 years before finally leaving him two years ago. He was physically, emotionally and sexually abusive with me and physically and emotionally abusive to my oldest daughter. We had him charged with child abuse and domestic violence this past year and he pled guilty to all the charges, receiving a years incarceration. He unfortunately comes up for parole in April 2009. I hope that I will be able to offer some support to everyone in the group... I am learning that the healing takes a VERY long time. Two years later and in a fantastic relationship with a good man and I am still feeling the affects of the abuse but I am finally starting therapy in March thank goodness.