Still First Wives

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There are groups for single Mom's, step-Mom's, multiple-Mom's, divorcee's and more. But where is the group that is proud that we made the correct choice the first time and work HARD at holding that first choice? Here we are!

Members: 8
Latest Activity: Dec 2

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Happy Thanksgiving Ladies! 1 Reply

So much to be thankful today. But I'll just stick with some generals. I'm thankful for my awesome hubby that still loves me after all these years I've put him through :) and thankful for my wacky kid…

Started by Val. Last reply by Chrissy Jensen Dec 2.

How old were you guys? 4 Replies

So how old were you guys when you hooked up? I'm surrounded by friends that also mess up the statistics by being with their high school sweethearts. We even have one set of friends that screw up the…

Started by Val. Last reply by Gail Klanchesser Nov 26.

Groups of friends 4 Replies

Have you found that your groups of friends are mostly other couples on their first marriages? I know being mid-30's we've started to see a few marriages end. But for the most part the majority of our…

Started by Val. Last reply by Val Nov 9.

Quick Intro 5 Replies

Hi, I'm Val. I've been married to my high school sweetheart for 15 years now. I started this group because I swear if one more person tells me how lucky I am that I found him I will smack them. Yes…

Started by Val. Last reply by Val Nov 8.

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Comment by Val on November 9, 2009 at 11:31am: Oh good, well I banned the lady from contacting me anymore anyway. So now we can just move on to more positives and let it all blow by.

I'll try to come up with some more discussions here this week. I'm on solo duty since hubby is off to a friends house hunting for the week. Even with how much time I spend alone because of his shifts I'm actually looking forward to the week. Lots of work to get done. lol

Comment by Denise on November 9, 2009 at 8:11am: I absolutely LOVE the title. In fact, I'll write you a nasty email if you change it. (Kidding!)

I very rarely participate in groups like this, but when I saw the title I knew I had to be a part of it. We should be vocal and celebrate the fact that we're still first wives.

Comment by ladijo on November 9, 2009 at 6:41am: I didn't find the title of this offensive at all. I am thrilled to still be married to my one and only.

Comment by Val on November 8, 2009 at 1:31pm: Thanks Chrissy,

I know emailing you off group helped me a lot.

I know some people really are mean because they have issues that their first marriages didn't work out and mean people like to make others feel bad as well. Mean people suck and need to get lives. lol

I'm so happy to see you three ladies here and happy to see how proud of your hard work you are.

Comment by Chrissy Jensen on November 7, 2009 at 10:11pm: It's not offensive at all. If someone took offense to it, that's their problem. Does she harbor some guilt why her first didn't work out??? Who cares!

Do relationships end that people work hard at? Absolutely!

There is nothing wrong with being proud of making the correct choice the first time around and working hard at it. There is nothing wrong with having a group stating so either.

Comment by Val on November 7, 2009 at 8:08pm: Hi Denise and Chrissy!

Hey ladies can you give me some quick feedback? Did you find the description of the group offensive at all? I had a lady attack me in an email that I am a snob and I should look at changing my wording.

Considering the admins here approved the group with that wording I'm not so sure I want to change it. ;) lol