"Love is as strong as death, its jealousy unyielding as the grave. It burns like blazing fire" Song of Solomon 8:6
Dare: Make your mind up to be your spouse's biggest fan and reject any thoughts of jealousy. To help you set your heart on your spouse and focus on their achievements, take the negative list, discreetly and carefully burn it.(Have a bucket of water or working hose near by!) Then share with your spouse how glad you are about a success he or she recently enjoyed.
"Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep." (Romans 12:15)
Did you have any difficulty in destroying the list? What are some positive experiences that you can celebrate of your spouse? How can you support and encourage them toward future successes?