And We Can All Breath A Huge Sigh of Relief
Would you get Demi there with her toyboy. Seemingly they are all the rage. Demi was the original, but now all the leading ladies have them. Madonna, Gwyneth Paltrow, Eva Longoria, Kim Cattrall, and even the likes of Cameron Diaz and Jennifer Anniston have been known to dip their toes in the water, and Joan Collins has made it an art form.
Well ha! They can all move over, cause now Yummy Mammy has her very own Toyboy! See, I knew I was right about this one.
As you may have gathered I sent the text. My god did my nerves jangle. But after lots of words of encouragement on Twitter, a few emails exchanged to consider wording, at 10.30pm last night, my itchy fingers got the better of me. And bloody hell, he didn't make it easy. It took him 20, yes 20 minutes to reply. In that time I downed two glasses of wine and smoked about 10 fags. But he replied.
Anyway, I'll cut out the boring crap in between cause at first it was all a bit cryptic and I was struggling to weigh him up. Anyway, then we spoke for ages and when I finally got off the phone to him at 1.30am a lot had been resolved.
Firstly he said that he hadn't meant that he didn't want a relationship at all, he'd meant that as I had a lot on my plate as it was he didn't want to add to my complications. He said that it had all come out wrong and he hadn't meant things the way they had sounded and hadn't wanted to leave things the way we had. I explained that I knew a full on type relationship was never going to be on the cards at the moment as it was just way too complicated and I didn't want him getting involved in all my shit. But we are mad about each other.
So we have decided that for the time being we are having a sort of part time relationship, if that makes sense. I go there every other week and in that time I want to forget all the crap I have going on here and instead have my other life where I spend loads of time enjoying myself with Toyboy. It's a bit like dating, only with a set timescale and both knowing that we are together, and he won't be going off with any other women while my back is turned. He just won't be getting involved with all my legal stuff and my life here or small child. And then if I get moved in 6 or so months then we will have gone through the whole dating and getting to know each other stage and we can take it from there. Oh and someone had mentioned to him about being a step dad to small child. Freakin idiot whoever that was.
So I suppose in a way I'm kind of leading a double life now. But it also gives me a good excuse to get up off my arse and get things sorted and get bloody moved!
For anyone that has missed out on the campaign stuff or hasn't read how it all started then I've linked the various posts below. If you haven't already contacted me and would like to get involved then either leave a comment below or email me. We shall be kicking off the campaign on September 4th and already I have nearly filled September with bloggers will to jump on board, but the more the merrier and you know I will be eternally thankful to you all. And yes, you can all come to the welcome home party.
So this is how it all began - Heart Broke
About being held hostage - Hostage
And how I plan to cope with it all and get the campaign under way - Coping Strategies
I currently have a big long list of email address and I plan to send out all the stuff to you at the end of this week because after that I will be in England for nearly 2 weeks and then when I get back, it's back to school for small child and then we can kick off the campaign.
Lets get me home and to my lovely Toyboy xx
Well ha! They can all move over, cause now Yummy Mammy has her very own Toyboy! See, I knew I was right about this one.
As you may have gathered I sent the text. My god did my nerves jangle. But after lots of words of encouragement on Twitter, a few emails exchanged to consider wording, at 10.30pm last night, my itchy fingers got the better of me. And bloody hell, he didn't make it easy. It took him 20, yes 20 minutes to reply. In that time I downed two glasses of wine and smoked about 10 fags. But he replied.
Anyway, I'll cut out the boring crap in between cause at first it was all a bit cryptic and I was struggling to weigh him up. Anyway, then we spoke for ages and when I finally got off the phone to him at 1.30am a lot had been resolved.
Firstly he said that he hadn't meant that he didn't want a relationship at all, he'd meant that as I had a lot on my plate as it was he didn't want to add to my complications. He said that it had all come out wrong and he hadn't meant things the way they had sounded and hadn't wanted to leave things the way we had. I explained that I knew a full on type relationship was never going to be on the cards at the moment as it was just way too complicated and I didn't want him getting involved in all my shit. But we are mad about each other.
So we have decided that for the time being we are having a sort of part time relationship, if that makes sense. I go there every other week and in that time I want to forget all the crap I have going on here and instead have my other life where I spend loads of time enjoying myself with Toyboy. It's a bit like dating, only with a set timescale and both knowing that we are together, and he won't be going off with any other women while my back is turned. He just won't be getting involved with all my legal stuff and my life here or small child. And then if I get moved in 6 or so months then we will have gone through the whole dating and getting to know each other stage and we can take it from there. Oh and someone had mentioned to him about being a step dad to small child. Freakin idiot whoever that was.
So I suppose in a way I'm kind of leading a double life now. But it also gives me a good excuse to get up off my arse and get things sorted and get bloody moved!
For anyone that has missed out on the campaign stuff or hasn't read how it all started then I've linked the various posts below. If you haven't already contacted me and would like to get involved then either leave a comment below or email me. We shall be kicking off the campaign on September 4th and already I have nearly filled September with bloggers will to jump on board, but the more the merrier and you know I will be eternally thankful to you all. And yes, you can all come to the welcome home party.
So this is how it all began - Heart Broke
About being held hostage - Hostage
And how I plan to cope with it all and get the campaign under way - Coping Strategies
I currently have a big long list of email address and I plan to send out all the stuff to you at the end of this week because after that I will be in England for nearly 2 weeks and then when I get back, it's back to school for small child and then we can kick off the campaign.
Lets get me home and to my lovely Toyboy xx
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