I Can't Keep A Secret
I am literally flying out the door as I'm off on my travels again this weekend, but I simply couldn't keep this a secret any longer. Well I've already spilled the beans to loads of you already so I might as well tell the rest of you now.
I'M MOVING BACK TO THE UK, GOING HOME FOR GOOD IN 28 DAYS!!!!!!!
Shocked you haven't I. And now I'm going to leave you hanging and tell you all the details next week upon my return. But be rest assured, it's good news, there is a little bit of give and take, and a few things that I'm not entirely happy about, but on the whole it's good and all has worked out well. Oh and my divorce has finally gone through and the decree absolute will be granted in a couple of weeks as well.
So I'm off back home for the weekend to celebrate. And to deal with Toyboy. In my new found one woman UN negotiator role (well not exactly but having dealt with Batman for so long and finally reached an amicable resolution I now feel that I would do well working for the UN), I'm going to hit Toyboy with it. Step up or step away, and when I say step away, I actually mean stay away.
This is the start of a whole new chapter for Yummy Mammy and no longer will I settle for second best, not getting what I want or putting up with things because the situation dictates that I have to. There no longer is a situation, there no longer is any complication, there is no longer a big old sea to constantly cross. There is only me, living in the place I want to live, and a man, Toyboy, that I do really like, living in that same place. I know what I want, and if it's not what he also wants then it's time to move along. It really is that simple now.
As for the Save One Mammy campaign, if you all agree (those that are still to post) then I think we should carry on? My situation is now sort of resolved (but hey it's Batman so anything could still happen) but given the vast amount of women who are still suffering because of these out dated, ridiculous laws, I feel it is important that they find us and know that there is hope. That you can get there in the end. And also know that they are not alone. I can quite honestly say that I don't know what I would have done without all my readers and the huge amounts of support they have given me. There have been times when I have been completely lost and not known what to do from one day to the next. And then an email would arrive or someone would comment and again I would see the light at the end of the tunnel. It is so important that other women get to see the light too. Living in the darkness this horrible situation brings is the most awful place to be, and they need our help and support.
So I'm off again for the weekend and I really hope my celebrations aren't dampened by an awkward Toyboy. But actually I won't let him ruin them at all. He can just go away if I so much as get a sniff that he might be about to.
And I'm also meeting up with quite a few other bloggers as well this weekend so I dare say I'll have about a million tales to tell you all next week, and I'll also post all the details of the Batman agreement.
Until then, much love to you all, and once again, thank you so very very very much for everything you have all done to keep me going. You will never truly realise just how much you have done for me.
Much love
xx
I'M MOVING BACK TO THE UK, GOING HOME FOR GOOD IN 28 DAYS!!!!!!!
Shocked you haven't I. And now I'm going to leave you hanging and tell you all the details next week upon my return. But be rest assured, it's good news, there is a little bit of give and take, and a few things that I'm not entirely happy about, but on the whole it's good and all has worked out well. Oh and my divorce has finally gone through and the decree absolute will be granted in a couple of weeks as well.
So I'm off back home for the weekend to celebrate. And to deal with Toyboy. In my new found one woman UN negotiator role (well not exactly but having dealt with Batman for so long and finally reached an amicable resolution I now feel that I would do well working for the UN), I'm going to hit Toyboy with it. Step up or step away, and when I say step away, I actually mean stay away.
This is the start of a whole new chapter for Yummy Mammy and no longer will I settle for second best, not getting what I want or putting up with things because the situation dictates that I have to. There no longer is a situation, there no longer is any complication, there is no longer a big old sea to constantly cross. There is only me, living in the place I want to live, and a man, Toyboy, that I do really like, living in that same place. I know what I want, and if it's not what he also wants then it's time to move along. It really is that simple now.
As for the Save One Mammy campaign, if you all agree (those that are still to post) then I think we should carry on? My situation is now sort of resolved (but hey it's Batman so anything could still happen) but given the vast amount of women who are still suffering because of these out dated, ridiculous laws, I feel it is important that they find us and know that there is hope. That you can get there in the end. And also know that they are not alone. I can quite honestly say that I don't know what I would have done without all my readers and the huge amounts of support they have given me. There have been times when I have been completely lost and not known what to do from one day to the next. And then an email would arrive or someone would comment and again I would see the light at the end of the tunnel. It is so important that other women get to see the light too. Living in the darkness this horrible situation brings is the most awful place to be, and they need our help and support.
So I'm off again for the weekend and I really hope my celebrations aren't dampened by an awkward Toyboy. But actually I won't let him ruin them at all. He can just go away if I so much as get a sniff that he might be about to.
And I'm also meeting up with quite a few other bloggers as well this weekend so I dare say I'll have about a million tales to tell you all next week, and I'll also post all the details of the Batman agreement.
Until then, much love to you all, and once again, thank you so very very very much for everything you have all done to keep me going. You will never truly realise just how much you have done for me.
Much love
xx
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