Let Talk about Love, Relationship and Anal Sex?

If you missed the show last night? SHAME ON YOU!!! We talk about Celebrity Mom Gossip, Blow Jobs, and Anal Sex Oh My!

It truly was Motherhood Uncensored and Rain Pryor joined The Cocktail Cafe Mom Squad last night and offered her mom confession along with Jackie from MomLogic and Amina Carter to chat about sex (blow jobs and even anal... wow!), love and relationships from a mother's perspective.

WHAT I KNOW NOW

Lessons learnt about Sex, Love and Relationships

Let's start with the truth... MOMS LOVE SEX. After all, we didn't get these babies from the stork right? And for those moms that are in good, intimate understanding relationship, it truly is the best and happiest place in the universe and I'm happy for you.

But if you are like me (learning, struggling, and re-discovering) and you want to enjoy your life, then here's my personal mom confession and what I've learned so far:

1.) It is so difficult to forgive ourselves our failures: This includes those daily mishaps that litter our marriage/partnerships, however happy. BUT, without our failures, we never learn to do things differently. Every failure has taught me some important truth - the most significant of which is always try to look at my part in things.

2.) Blame is a Loser's Game (are you a SUCKER for love?): If it's ALWAYS the other person's fault then nobody wins and EVERYONE loses and NOTHING CHANGES. Blame is a trick of perspective and I must bring the picture into focus long enough to notice that it takes two to make the relationship work.

3.) Concentrate on building and maintaining friendship with your partner: I will be the first to confess to you this... I have struggled in my marriage to my husband Damion (Marriage Gets Better With Wine) I met him when I was 19 years old and loved him from the moment I laid eyes on him (even though I told him that I couldn't stand him... shhhhh). I was recently given a great piece of marriage advise:

"Always treat your husband as you would your closest friend."

When my closest friends (I love you Amina... and you know it NOW) are in my presence, I do not criticize the way she stacks the dishwasher. I never look at if she has another glass of wine. I do not try to change her. Because I love her, I allow her to be the person she so magnificently is.

4.) Intimate relationships are high-risk investments: YES, Arguments happen. Real intimacy demands high levels of emotional interaction, which is why withdrawing from sex is almost never about sex but a retreat from intimacy. It's not so much the sex that matters as the retreat.

In a new study conducted by marriage counselor M. Gary Neuman, it's estimated that one in 2.7 men will cheat-and most of their wives will never know about it. So, what's the number one reason men cheat? Ninety-two percent of men said it wasn't primarily about the sex.

"The majority said it was an emotional disconnection, specifically a sense of feeling underappreciated. A lack of thoughtful gestures," Gary says. "Men are very emotional beings. They just don't look like that. Or they don't seem like that. Or they don't tell you that."

And this leads me to my final truth...

5.) Explore your Sexuality: Give a Blow Job, Try Some Anal Sex (ease into this one ladies... Oooooohhhhh Wwweeeee) and become the fantasy woman that you and your partner design. If we are not challenging the people we love INTIMATELY to make our SEX lives better, we immediately grant them the freedom to love someone else. So, in that spirit, I try to shut the f*ck up. LISTENING is the key to making your marriage/partnership work ladies (and gentlemen). Don't be afraid to praise your partner because men are SO emotional and PLEASE KNOW THIS - THE OTHER WOMAN makes him feel special, loved, and better about himself. Don't be afraid to praise him/her or tell them that you appreciate what he/she does.

All in all, last's night show was about MOTHERHOOD: Sex, Love and Rlationships from a real moms giving straight talk. Find out how we deal with finding our sex drive after pregnancy, allowing ourselves to rediscover our sexuality and redefine love and life on our own terms.

So, what's Your Mom Confession?